Divorce, Khula pinch every Women whether she is a celebrity or not!

“Divorce, Khula” maybe a small word but behind this, a pain, a story, broken heart, rejected feelings, many emotions, insult of a woman that she wouldn’t be able to continue her relationship..!

i heard many news of divorce of different actresses for a long time but yesterday i heard news regarded to well known personality. This news forced me to write an article on this burning issue of Pakistan.

Most of the Reason of divorces is the insulting behavior of her husband, is woman lost her self-respect after 1st divorce? Here, question arouse 2^nd marriage give right to husband that they can insult women everywhere at anytime? If Islam allows woman to get Khula so why our society do not accept it!

Here the thinking point is that the reason of the divorce is just belong to women. why we don’t blame on men? Why divorce rate is increasing in Pakistan? Is the major reason of divorce is woman know her rights or the men lost their patience? but answer of this question is difficult to find.

Yeah this is the fact that woman give many sacrifices to save her married life, if she bear 75 percent why men don’t even sacrifice 25 percent for their marriage… 75 to 25 percentage is common in Pakistan but problem creates when man cannot compromise even 25% in their relationship these circumstances ends with divorce or Khula.

If we talk about Our religion Islam. Islam gives many rights to woman as compare to other religions. This is common phenomena, whenever we talk about woman rights our society put Islam aside but those woman who know completely about their Islamic rights they didn’t continue 75 to 25 relationship with man. Women who have knowledge and awareness about their rights, they believe on equal rights in marital relationship, Our society don’t like these kinds of woman.

women does not born to bear injustice, pain, insult, domestic violence by her husband. She deserves same self-respect as man. If this is a fact, why their own family does not treat in the same way…? women are the most beautiful creature of ‘God’ so why she tolerate all kind of injustice.

if Parents teach their daughters how to live in  society in respectable manner and secure their self-respect then why they expected that she sacrifice their self-respect, bear all insult by their husbands.

Khula or divorce are not sin but that words pinch her heart whole life, that words are more painful than death. Women are women whether she belongs to showbiz or house wife they bear equal pain of divorce or Khula!

I agree, some women are strong they do not show their pain but some are weak and frightened about stereotype thinking of society.

By:  Syeda Sana Batool Kazmi