Why Girls suffered in restricted families?
Iām not trying to hit any specific cast and religion, Iām trying to point out those restricted families who donāt allows their daughters to take even a single breath independently.
This issue is not only belongs to Pakistan many people of different countries are also facing this kind of gender discrimination, but today Iām only talking about my country. Unfortunately, in Pakistan, girls who were born in the backward and restricted families face different types of discrimination.
Girls also bore injustice on the basis of gender if he is a man so he has a permission to do whatever he wantā¦ but if she is a girl so they donāt allows to live her life.
Iām here to enlightening the life of girls āwho have everything in life except life!ā
She canāt go alone outside or to make decisions for her own life, she canāt laugh loudly, they restricts her in wearing, Abaya and veil as these are necessary for her life, many other restrictions she bear in her whole life.
Her father and brother treated her harshly. Every common girl who belongs to restricted family is facing all these types of inferiority in family. She bears and had to live in this pain.
I want to shed light on tribal, northern and nomadic areas where girls sold and bought like animals. They even didnāt allow her to express their pain; fought for her rights. She is living like corpse!
Girls faced many grim situations but didnāt complain against this injustice. If she tried to raise her voice against injustice so they suppressed her voice for life time. She doesnāt have her own life she lives according to her family orders.
She treated them in very brutality manners. She canāt marry according to her own will, canāt see dreams for her own self, didnāt made decision for her own self, didnāt allow to chase her dreams! She lived like a prisoner and as her family want to.
She didnāt have any freedom of speech even, perhaps, before marriage they bear little bit oppression but after marriage they bear all kind of injustice, as compare to before marriageās life, her husband beats and crushes her rights but she bears silently and doesnāt raise her voice against injustice or offenses activities.
She is not only bear all mass for herself but she is also creating history and establishing injustice for her own race those will be also suffer in future.
Childhood engagements also common in these types of families they didnāt even think once what kind of future they are giving to their princess! when they think about their decision the time has been passed yet they couldnāt help her.
Especially, when they forcefully tied her with anyone because their princess is their own property and made their princess scapegoat on the name of Izaat!
Girl who is a part of the conservative family she really couldnāt know, when she became victim from princess!
As an educated woman I think, we should raise our voice against any kind of injustice. If Islam gives women rights so why we put aside those rights for our so cold family who donāt even thinks we are human not animals! So why we should bothers them?
Freedom is our basic right, so how our family or parents can put us behind the bars for the sake of house or family respects. If they donāt care about our feelings and self-respect so why we care about them? If we want to fly beyond the sky so we should do it but live in our limits. We should also follow our rules as a girl.
Someone well said āWoman is like a stream until stream flow in their limits it brings happiness but when it crosses their limits then brings destructionā
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superb! Vry well written!
very sad situation…
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Somehow women persisted and got to vote in the United States some 100 years ago.
Persist, persist and be persistent!
Wow, as an American man, this made me feel saddened for these young ladies.
Impressive š
Hi there! You are a wonderful, strong woman. I cannot imagine what you have suffered. I am American born and bred and my heart breaks for you. Anything that I may find to complain about pales in comparison to your experience. Stay in touch. I admire you.
I’m student and nothing happened with me but I spotted women in my country, Thanks for your appreciationš
I’m so glad that nothing has happened to you. I admire your work. Again, please stay in touch. ā„ļø
What terrible bondage and oppression. Thank you for leaving me a follow. I will follow you also.
This article indicate you are a brave girl and oppose the bad treated for girls in families. Very good and impressive blog and you continue oppose in terms of blogs. You are a great and brave blogger
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Very well articulated, sadly we women are the most violated beings on the planet
But you women are most strongest human beings on this planet as well
Its not just a problem in tribal and northern areas but in cities like Karachi too we have this problem of restriction
yes u are right
It’s devastating to know such things have happened and still do š
well written,,,,have you heard of the artist hatecopy.you would love marias paintings.
This is the mentality problem then comes to religion problem and mostly in low and middle class family and in Muslims most of the men thought rules and regulations are designed only for women not for men that is why most of the men treated women as property, as slaves…we are all humans and we all have equal opportunity and if there is any restrictions so restrictions should be for everyone irrespective of gender….
If you are right then don’t care about people and try to open up urself ,it would be little difficult but not impossible… Malala Yusafzai is an example for every Pakistani girl
The world can be a dangerous place for women. Too few men realize
the important roles they play in the life of all humanity!